Small changes make a big difference

We recently dropped another class, Taekwondo. Owen and Lilly really enjoyed it but it was a difficult time of day. 4-5 pm. I wasn’t able to get dinner in the kids at a decent time or able to exercise for myself because of this class. The instructor was great and very nice. I feel a little guilty but I just had to let something else go. i have had a very easy two weeks all around. It is amazing to me what I thought was a small change turned out to be huge! I have been more efficient with the kids schooling and getting all their subjects in.

I do have to give Lilly credit, she has been very focused and easy to handle lately. I also made a change to her math curriculum, two days out of the book and three days on multiplication.com. She needs to memorize her multiplication facts and it seems to take the pressure off.

Sometimes it is just these little adjustments that help so much.  it is at times like these that I love the flexibility of home school. I love that I can tailor my children’s learning to where THEY are as opposed to the class.

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slow week

This is a tough week for me. Not for any particular reason, I’m just not overly motivated to do book work. We can make up for what we have lost on Saturday but that just keeps the week on dragging. Sometimes I get a lot done with Owen and hardly anything with Lilly and visa versa. The glorious thing I have learned over the years is that it will all work out. Every now and then we have a slow week but for the most part it is pretty steady. I am proud of the fact that I am not worried about this weak. I just take a deep breath and move on.

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Gideon is Busy

It is so reassuring to hear my friends tell me that Gideon is busy.  I mean, I know 2 is a busy age but this kid is off the charts!  Every time I pick him up from class or a friend they and I ask how he was I get the one word answer, busy.  I even had a friend ask if he was like this at home, yes he is.  Even the speech therapist and the developmental therapist said he was a busy guy.  It is nice to know it is not my imagination.  It is not just me having a pity party when I am frustrated with him in the fridge for the 50th time in an hour.  Home school with a baby or a toddler is a challenge for anyone.  With Gideon sometimes I want to just scream!  I am thankful the dog is on vacation because the two of them were my worst nightmare!  I would be trying to explain directions to Owen, who can’t read yet, and helping Lilly with a math problem while Gideon is tossing crayons on the floor if he wasn’t writing on the walls with them.  When the dog was here he would eat the crayons so I would be cleaning up that mess and Gideon was making another one somewhere at the same time.  Most days with Gid are like this.  My experience tells me this too shall pass but when your in the moment sometimes it feels overwhelming.  You ask yourself what am I doing wrong? Did I create this or is it inherited?  I try to think if Owen was this busy but I think I could only focus on his biting issues.  Are there baby Track meets?  If so I think Gideon would be in for the long distance running.  So I say thank you for noticing how crazy this kid is and making me feel sane!Gid on the run

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Research Report

Lilly is working on a research report for Mission Santa Cruz. It is really simple compared to the book reports her teacher usually assigns. I am looking forward to making a field trip to the mission to help make it come alive for her. I am amazed at the increase of maturity in her this year. Home school does get easier as they get older!

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You Tube helps with school!

I use You Tube to teach songs for days of the week or months of the year.  I also found some good rhyming songs on there.  Owen will watch and it helps to retain the information.  I just type in rhyming or sing the months of the year.  I like to type in Sesame Street too and I would get some cute clips for him to watch that pertain to kindergarten.

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Is magic in fiction acceptable for Christian readers? an essay by Kelsey Lightfoot

Magic and supernatural powers have been a part of our myths, stories and legends since the beginning of time. Humans have always been fascinated with powers and occurrences that can not be explained, and we seek to explain them by magic or the paranormal. While here on earth magic either comes from God or the devil, in fictional stories it can come from other sources. This is why I believe that the use of magic and the supernatural in fiction is acceptable for Christian writers and readers.
Magic – to some it is from the devil, but to some it is simply a cool part of many books and movies. In our world the only way to get power or magic is through the devil, but not so in many stories. In stories, such as Harry Potter and The Chronicles of Narnia, magic just is. It exists just as electricity and Turkish Delight do. It is part of the world the characters live in. You see, an author creates a world and its dimensions, then inputs his own version of good and evil, and usually some sort of deity. In Harry Potter, though the world is based on ours, it is a world where magic exists. It is not from Satan, it just is. How the magic is used can be good or bad, but the magic just is. Even in Twilight the world is not ours, because vampires and werewolves exist in that fictional world. The reader does have to be careful, though, to remember that these stories are fiction. Also, the reader must be careful that good triumphs over evil. A story where good does not prevail is not appropriate for Christian writers or readers. The God-figure must be portrayed as all-knowing, all-loving, and always victorious. Readers should take it book by book, world by world, story by story.
The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe is an excellent example of an analog. The plot of this story closely follows the sequence of events of the Passion and Resurrection of Christ. The story starts when Lucy Pevensie enters Narnia through a magical wardrobe. Then Edmund follows and meets a Witch. She tempts him with Turkish Delight and thoughts of fame and fortune to betray his siblings, for she fears they will be her downfall. Coinciding with the law set up by the Great Emperor Beyond the Sea, traitors fall under the Witch’s jurisdiction. She decides his punishment is death. Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death”, reinforcing the idea that rebellion against God’s law deserves punishment. However, Romans goes on to say that because of mankind’s state, Christ took on human flesh and died for us. Aslan takes the place of Edmund and endures capture, mocking and death. However, though the Witch understood Deep Magic, she does not remember it all. “There is a deeper magic still which she did not know…when a willing victim who had committed no treachery was killed in a traitor’s stead, … Death itself would start working backwards.” (Lewis, Lion 132). Aslan then came back to life, as Jesus did, and shows his commitment and willingness to serve. The fact that it is recognizably based on events in the life of Jesus automatically leads the reader to make the connection between the love of Aslan and the love of God through Christ. Therefore, the emotional story enhances the most fundamental of Christian beliefs: that God loves mankind so much that He died so that we would not have to bear the horrible shame and punishment, but that because He did not deserve to die, He came back to life, thereby defeating death and evil.
J.R.R. Tolkien’s The Lord of the Rings is very similar to Narnia in that it is full of Christian symbolism. The Lord of the Rings often uses the numbers one, three, seven, and nine in its storyline. Three and seven are used in the Bible to signify Holy Presence and Perfection. Three, seven and nine are used philosophically when referring to eternal things. At the beginning of the novel, the Ring verse introduces the first use of the numbers one, three, seven, and nine:

“Three Rings for the Elven-kings under the sky,
Seven for the Dwarf-lords in their halls of stone,
Nine for Mortal Men doomed to die,
One for the Dark Lord on his dark throne,
In the land of Mordor where shadows lie.
One Ring to rule them all, One Ring to find them,
One Ring to rule them all and in the darkness bind them
In the land of Mordor where shadows lie.”

This is also in the old rhyme told by Gandalf:

“Tall ships and tall Kings
Three times three,
What brought they from the foundered land
Over the flowing sea?
Seven stars and seven stones
And one white tree.”

There are many other times these numbers appear in these books. Nine Rings for Mortal Men which leads to Nine Ringwraiths, seven male Valar, seven female Valar, seven stars of the house of Elendil, seven stars traced on the blade of Anduril, seven gems in a circlet on the Crown of King Elessar, one white tree which is the emblem of Arnor and Gondor, as displayed on Banner of Arwen, three hallowed jewels, three ages of the world under oppression of evil, three times did Frodo wear the ring, thirty-three was the age of Frodo when he receives the Ring. This last number and age is indicative to Tolkien’s thoughts as it is the age of Christ when he undergoes His Passion and dies on the cross. Upon receiving the Ring Frodo begins his Passion which does not end until he departs for the Undying Lands.
While Twilight is not like Narnia and Lord of the Rings in that it does not contain Christian symbolism or a deity, it still depicts the battle of good and evil with good triumphing in the end. Vampires tend to be “dark” characters, but the author creates and controls them. Can a vampire be a nice guy? Can a werewolf enjoy scratches behind the ear? Sure, why not? They are not real, after all. Some people are drawn to traditionally “dark” creatures, and a Christian author can use “dark” characters in good ways to affect people he normally would not be able to effect. Twilight is acceptable because the vampires are fighting their bad temptations. Any creatures who know the difference between good and evil and choose good are commendable to use in stories. But glorifying, glamorizing, or looking up to creatures who choose evil is not moral, and it could very well affect a Christian’s faith and beliefs. In Twilight, Edward Cullen not only recognizes and fights his temptations, but he tries to lead a good life. He does not think vampires have souls, but he tries to live an honorable life so that if he is wrong he will not spend eternity in Hell.
Harry Potter mainly focuses on the art of wizardry and magic. Our modern definition of magic is “any extraordinary or mystical influence, charm, power, etc.”, and the definition of wizard and witchcraft are simply “someone who practices magic” and “the practice of magic”. A sorcerer, however, is described as “someone who practices dark magic”, and is, therefore, unacceptable for a Christian to read about or look up to. Vine’s Complete Expository Dictionary says this about sorcery “In sorcery, the use of drugs, whether simple or potent, was generally accompanied by incantations and appeals to occult powers, with the provision of various charms, amulets, etc., professedly designed to keep the applicant or patient from the attention and power of demons, but actually to impress the applicant with the mysterious resources and powers of the sorcerer.” In Harry Potter the characters are wizards, not sorcerers, and they use their magic for good to defeat evil. These characters are born with this magical ability, just as some in our world are born with musical ability or athletic ability. The practice of magic and wizardry is commendable in this book, because the world is not ours, rather it is a fictional world springing from the imagination of the author. The author used our world as a basis, but the world of Hogwarts and Dumbledore is not the world we live in, as magic is normal there. However, if the reader reads books like Harry Potter with the thought that magic and witchcraft are real, and that they can become wizards themselves, the books are obviously dangerous to that audience and should not be read by them.
While magic and the use of werewolves, vampires, etc. is acceptable for use in Christian writing, the writers and readers do need to be careful and analyze the story. Is it good triumphing over evil? Does it have a positive message? If it has some sort of deity, is it kind and loving, or evil and malevolent? Analyze the story for yourself and deem it worthy or unworthy of reading by a cherished and loved child of God.

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Classes Increase In Size As Days Shorten

Did you know school class sizes are going up to 28 kids per class?  Can you imagine 28 kindergartners and one teacher? Plus they are shortening the school year by a week. I am thankful this doesn’t effect me. Just think about it; how can a teacher honestly connect with 28 personalities and provide what each and every student needs in order to maximize their learning.

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Cirriculum Changes

I always get to the halfway point of schooling and realize what’s working and what’s not.  Right now we have been doing Story of the World for history and I think it’s time to move to  a different program. We use Houghton Mifflin for geography of California so I might move to that history lesson.  The bad part is I have to do 2 different histories now, one for Owen and one for Lil.  I know it’s time to move on when Owen can’t summarize what I just read and Lilly isn’t retaining anything.  I also found that the teachers edition of my grammar book for Lilly is super lame.  It isn’t the same lesson so I basically have to learn the subject myself in order to correct it.  The lessons don’t match the answers but they are on the same subject.  I really don’t have the time and energy for that so it’s going to be replaced.  This sucks because she has learned a lot from that program. This is one great perk of a charter school, I don’t come out of pocket to replace these I just return my teachers editions and get a new curriculum.Cirriculum

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Home Schooling ABC’s

Often times we get the big question, “where do we start with this home school?” Yes there are some ABC’s and 123’s when you finally make the decision to school your children. A few thoughts to consider are:

1. Charter Programs- Yes we home school but we also attend a charter. There are classes, facilitators to assist, and you have the support of hired help.
2. Church Family- There are a lot of mom’s and dad’s that are attending such programs and you can lean on fellow parents that have support and great tips.
3. Online Groups- With the internet being a sea of information, you can find local groups for moral support and breaks to spread the work load as other parents might be looking for the      same. You are not the only parent that needs support.
4. A powerful guide is “homeschooling ABC’s” that you can invest $10.00 and get solid support and encouragement to minimize any frustration or confusion.

Remember, you are not alone. Reach out for support and utilize all of your resources. Never be too afraid to ask for help and clarify and unanswered questions as there is a big family willing to see you succeed in your home schooling endeavor.

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The Value of Scaling Back

Well I think I am going to have to drop Girl Scouts for Lilly.  It was a tough decision but I think it is best for our family.  Her troop is accross town and meetings are at 6pm.  The boys are kinda done by then so it’s not fair plus I don’t have anything to do so we sit in the car.  Lilly has so many great activities she is involved in, it might be good for all of us.  We just added our church play to our agenda so something has to give.  It is so hard to give things up but we have to look at the whole.  Having a big family does make it difficult to be in two or three places at the same time! Pray for me to stick to my guns and not give in!

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